Obviously, it is a good age for marriage, but when his girlfriend and boyfriend proposed to marry, many men answered, “marriage? Now we can’t consider this matter.” There are various reasons to answer them. Some say they want to work hard, some say they are not mature, and some say they want to play for a few more years. Japan’s livedoor news network published an article introducing Japanese psychologist takeko Nakano’s psychological analysis of men’s “not considering marriage”.
Some analysis shows that men, affected by male hormones, instinctively want to have more women to release their own male hormones. Therefore, it seems difficult for men to love only one woman in their lives. However, with the progress of civilization, polygamy has long been abolished. In the view of men who are born with a great desire for money and power, marriage means that men can not legally give money to other women or have sex with other women all their lives. Nowadays, the concept of marriage of young people, especially men, has changed greatly. They even think that marriage is meaningless.
Nakano analyzed that this phenomenon may be caused by the following reasons: first, men no longer worry about eating. Now many men are good at cooking. Even those who can’t cook can eat delicious dishes in restaurants. Second, Internet TV provides a wealth of entertainment programs. Even if you stay at home alone, you won’t feel bored. The third and most important point is that many young men and women live together. They don’t worry about eating, they don’t feel lonely, and they can meet their sexual needs. So why bother to get a certificate?
In addition, income may also be an important reason why men are reluctant to marry. In the past, in Japan, the husband’s income was enough to ensure family life, and the wife was also a housewife. But for men nowadays, it is difficult for one person to support a family with his income. In the Japanese concept, if he can’t do this, he is not qualified to talk about marriage. Therefore, many men avoid the topic of marriage. Moreover, single men can not only earn their own money and spend their own money, but also are especially popular with women. Therefore, they enjoy single life more.
In addition, psychological experts also said that most single men have been trying to find a more attractive woman to marry. Therefore, they do not say the word “marriage” easily. Only when they feel that you are the most beautiful woman he has ever met, will they make up their minds and willingly spend their lives with you. Therefore, when a man says to you, “I don’t want to consider marriage now”, the implication may be, “I may meet more beautiful women, and I don’t want to be bound by you all my life”.
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