Men are animals that love to control and dominate. No man does not love face and self-esteem. To refute a man’s face and self-esteem, deny his ideas and values, or declare war on him and tear his face.
What men fear most and dislike most is the aggressive Hedong lion who likes to correct mistakes and control constraints (swearing is an absolutely unacceptable behavior. Swearing is mostly based on the premise of insulting women / sexual organs, and women who swear will make people feel disgusted and afraid).
If a woman is used to saying to a man, “it’s still a man who owes you” and “you can’t even do such things, are you still a man?” “Didn’t I tell you so long ago?” “You’re obviously wrong about this matter”, “it’s better to do it my way”, “what do you want to do?” “Why don’t you…?” When a man is cornered by aggressive or accusatory words, I’m afraid he will just walk away and run away.
Correcting men’s mistakes and strongly advocating their own views (correct) words will cause serious damage to men’s self-esteem. Even if you are completely right, men only feel that their self-esteem is humiliated and trampled on, and they can’t listen to what you want to say, and they will also attract disgust and disgust from the other side.
create a feeling that men are the masters of their own house
In fact, the secret of husband control is no longer to control, suppress and accuse men of expressing their ideas, nor to withhold money and restrict and control men’s actions, but to “create a feeling that men are masters of the house”.
For example, if the electrical appliances in your home are broken, even if you know how to repair them, you should deliberately pretend to be stupid, stupid and ignorant, and give the opportunity to the man to repair the electrical appliances and show you his ability. When you go out on a date, you give the man the right to choose a restaurant or a place to travel. You can create opportunities for a man to show his courage, take care of and protect women, so that he can feel the master of the house. When a man naturally has the will to protect the woman in front of him, he can best capture the heart of a man.
Over the past few decades, feminism has pursued gender equality, but it has fallen into the myth of pursuing equality between men and women, believing that only when women can act like men and do what men can, can they be truly equal. Therefore, those women who can do men’s things are called strong women and recognized by society as successful, even at the cost of abandoning their femininity. In other words, feminist efforts over the years have turned women into men. No wonder the more equal the rights of both sexes, the lower the marriage rate.
Gender equality should not be based on the obliteration of female characteristics and the masculinization of women. Instead, it should be based on the full recognition of the innate differences between men and women, the development of their strengths on the basis of equality, reciprocity and mutual respect, and the suppression and exploitation of the other sex. Only in this way can we establish true equality in which men and women develop their strengths.
A truly equal and mutually beneficial relationship between the sexes means that women respect men and men care about women.
guide rather than teach
Perhaps women will say, in this way, I am not required to be a man, and my ideas can not be implemented at all?
In fact, as long as you know how to “guide rather than teach”, women can easily let men willingly accomplish their goals. Because men like to control the overall situation, pay attention to face and self-esteem, and don’t like to be refuted, they hate top-down teaching. However, they can’t resist the guidance of good guidance.
Men show their kindness to women by conquering and controlling the world and then giving the world to women. Therefore, as long as you know how to “gently guide”, through subtle guidance and hints, men can resonate with your ideas and viewpoints and then identify with them. As long as men agree with your needs / preferences and regard your needs / preferences as their own, men will naturally choose the results you want.
For example, if you want to eat Italian food on a date, instead of telling boys directly that you want to eat Italian food, it is better to talk about the advantages of Italian food (health, delicious food, romance, etc.) on a date, and talk about your favorite Italian restaurant, so as to win the approval of boys. I believe boys will choose Italian restaurants coincidentally with you when choosing restaurants.
it’s OK to lose face, but it’s important to win.
In fact, men are stupid. They only care about face and self-esteem. They don’t care about the actual victory or defeat. As long as they leave face to men, men are more willing to let women win. Don’t deny and refute men face to face. If necessary, admit defeat on the surface. To preserve the dignity of men can win more victories for you. The key point is to achieve the goal, not the process. As long as we actually have the leadership in our bones, we may not have to compete in form.
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