myth 1: men always cheat and betray, but women are always the deceived party. In the past, both men and women had this myth. It is believed that men cheat and betray, while women are always cheated and cheated, because men’s infidelity makes them sad.
Truth one: in fact, men are just not good at telling their private affairs and telling the story of their betrayal. And women generally cry to relatives and friends. So we all think that women are the ones who are cheated and suffer. In fact, in the data of the proportion of betraying and cheating on partners, 20% of men admit to cheating, and 16% of women admit to cheating. The difference between men and women is less than 5%.
Myth 2: men love to lie. Research shows that men lie more often in sexual relations. Most men lie because of their ex girlfriend or ex-wife. For example, I have made several girlfriends.
Truth two: women tell no less lies than men.
myth 3: men are calm and rational, while women are innocent and romantic. An online survey found that 54% of men believe in love at first sight.
Truth three: but in the same survey, only 44% of women believed in love at first sight.
myth 4: women are more likely to fall in love than men. A study by Pennsylvania State University in the United States found that most people think that women are hopeless romantics, while men are calm, rational and independent creatures.
Truth 4: but according to the survey, among the people who say “I love you” to their partners, men are three times more than women.
myth 5: women fall in love with each other faster.
Truth 5: a survey by Penn State University found that men may fall in love within a few weeks, while women may take several months. In another study, researchers from the Massachusetts Institute of technology also found that men began to think about saying “I love you” to each other six weeks earlier than women. Seeing this, it seems that men are lovelier than women in love? However, this is really far from our previous cognitive concepts.
myth 6: men think of sex all the time. You must have heard this saying. Men think about it every three seconds, or every two minutes? We forget the actual number, because every time you hear it in the bar, it is different. This is a myth.
Truth 6: a study published in 2011 found that men think about sex more than women, about once an hour, not all the time. Research has found that men think about food and sex almost as much as they think about sleeping.
myth 7: men are less sad when they break up than women, and recover faster than women. Past legends and established impressions make us think that after a relationship ends, a rational and calm man takes a few days to recover. But women spent months heartbroken and constantly analyzing what they had done wrong before they were dumped.
Truth seven: an American study found that men are more affected than women when relationships break. Many women break up because they can’t see each other’s common future. When breaking up under such circumstances, women are mentally prepared to end this relationship, while men are unprepared and can only hide the heartache of being torn and abandoned in their hearts. Although they keep their manners in words and say that they are still good friends, in fact, both sides know that wrong love can only pass and cannot be made up for.
myth 8: women want children more. In the past, when my girlfriend mentioned that I wanted to have a child, my boyfriend should be ready to run away. But new research shows that men also want children.
Truth 8: according to an online survey, more than half of men want children, but in the same survey, only 46% of women want children.
myth 9: men need more space. In the past, people believed that men needed time to be alone, think or socialize, while women preferred to stay at home and take care of their children. In fact, this is really wrong. According to a 2011 study, the opposite is true. Data show that 77% of women say they need their own personal space, while only 58% of men also say they need personal space. In addition, 78% of women said they should have their own interests and hobbies, but only 64% of men said they should have their own interests and hobbies. The most surprising part is that 35% of women think it is important to have time to meet good friends often in the evening. In contrast, only 23% of men said it was important to get together with friends in the evening.
Truth 9: the social structure has changed and the level of education has improved. The advocacy and practice of equal rights between men and women have become more and more thorough, so the positions of men and women have been gradually adjusted or even changed occasionally. Modern men want more stable intimate relationships than previous generations of men, while modern women want more self-identity and independence.
myth 10: a man is a sex maniac who is obsessed with sex and can’t resist the temptation of sex. In fact, young and single men are addicted to sexual life, probably because they do not have a partner to cooperate with at any time like married men.
Truth 10: according to an online survey involving nearly 2000 men, men are more likely to refuse sex than women. In the survey, more than 60% of men said that they had the experience of declining their partners’ courtship, and 40% of men thought that once every two weeks was enough.
Leave a Reply