netizens confide:
Recently, I met my favorite boy, who was also more interested in me. After holding hands and kissing on a date, he naturally expressed that he wanted to take me home. Previous experience tells me that I can’t sleep with a boy too soon, otherwise he will brazenly disappear or lose his memory the next day. But the problem now is that after I said no several times and went home by myself, he was obviously a little discouraged and began not to pay much attention to me.
If he says that he loves me and wants me to be his girlfriend, I can further tell him my thoughts and bottom line. But he has never expressed his feelings. The most he can say is that I am beautiful and he likes me very much. I know that this is a sign that he is not serious. If I don’t like him, just ignore him. But the problem is that I think he is really good. I’m not too young. I want to train him well. After domestication, I can raise him at home.
After so much wordiness, I actually want to ask: how can a woman play hard to get without letting a man run away? Are there any good skills you can teach me? thank you!
expert answer:
Baby, I think you are a smart girl, so I believe it is not difficult for you to keep a man.
As you said, sex is the dumbest way to establish relationships with men, because the body can retain men only for a period of time. Then, if you want to maintain a sexual relationship on the premise of non physical relationship, then you have to ask yourself what is worth the interest of the other party.
For example, he knows that you won’t have sex with him, but he still likes to run to your house again and again, because your food makes him feel like his mother; Another example is knowing that you will not have sex with him, but every time you eat, drink and play, the first thing you think of is to ask you out, because your lively and humorous make him feel happy and relaxed with you; Another example is knowing that you won’t have a relationship with him, but he still thinks about you all the time. Because you are simple and confused, he can’t help worrying about whether you will get up late, be bullied by colleagues in the company, and encounter any danger on the way to and from work.. of course, your natural characteristics may not be what the other party is interested in. You should first calmly analyze what kind of women he is prone to have interests other than physical ones, And then show it in front of him. There are no untamed men, only stupid women.
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