emotional problems:
Hello, I can’t figure this out. I hope to get your advice.
During the year of dating with his ex girlfriend, his boyfriend gave her gold accessories and other jewelry as birthday gifts and Valentine’s Day gifts. But after being with me, he didn’t say anything about my birthday at all, that is, he said, “Happy Birthday!”! Valentine’s Day is also a box of chocolates bought casually when we go shopping in the supermarket together. His explanation was that he was too busy with me to prepare gifts. I am very entangled and want to believe it, but I always feel that I can’t believe it. What do you think?
suggestions:
The past and the present are not suitable for comparison. His state at that time can not be compared with his present state.
Your entanglement is, to a large extent, the imbalance brought by the comparison with the gifts he gave his ex girlfriend. You can think so. Even if he gave her a diamond ring, they are not together now.
See whether this man values you. His performance on your birthday can be used as one of the reference factors, but it is not an inevitable factor. What do I usually do to you? If you don’t express it, you may as well refer to it.
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