1. The other party’s work
In online voting, the most desirable boyfriend is “rich second generation” or civil servant, and the most desirable career for men is teacher or civil servant. Both sides hope that each other’s work is stable, especially for women, who can spend most of their time at home. Another issue that attracts most people’s attention is the working remuneration, whether there is insurance, whether there is a high salary, and whether the job is stable. These are the issues that are most concerned by both parties when considering marriage.
2. Parents of both parties
If you want to understand your future marital life, you can understand it by looking at the other’s parents. Marriage is not only a combination of two people, but also a combination of two families. If two families disagree, the quality of marriage will be affected. The so-called “door-to-door” has a certain truth. In addition to understanding each other, understanding each other’s parents has also become one of the “lessons” before marriage.
3. High house price
Marriage does not have its own house, and having children will be a very troublesome thing. Some people are more optimistic, thinking that buying a house is only postponed for a few years, which can not only develop their career wholeheartedly. However, some people are pessimistic. They expect that they will never be able to afford the burden of buying a house, and consciously draw a clear line between themselves and affordable housing. Seeing that people are getting older and older, they begin to fall into the pain of “renting a house to solve their life-long problem, continuing to wait, or simply separating”. House prices are an important factor affecting modern people’s marriage.
4. Age
Age is a more realistic factor for women. When women are 25 years old, they will feel pressure. Men are less affected by age and more affected by career. For marriage, the age gap is also an important factor. In marriage, age is certainly not the decisive factor. However, the age gap between husband and wife will definitely cause some physical and psychological problems. According to the survey, the husband and wife with a difference of 5-10 years are the most harmonious.
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