These 11 kinds of psychology are by no means love

1. Admire

Teacher student love and idolatry belong to this category. We just worship all the advantages of each other, probably because we hope that we also have those advantages, so this is not parallel love.

2. Ambiguous

Many times, in order to relieve boredom and loneliness, men like to talk to a woman, and there are always ambiguous words in their words. We tend to indulge in this relationship, and even think it is love. In fact, the reason why a man is ambiguous is because he clearly understands that he will not give love. The man who can really give love will not play with us.

3. Physical attraction

Men always praise women’s appearance, and they love to be called “beautiful women” whether they are beautiful or ugly. Women think that he is in love with himself, but in fact, he is only in love with the woman’s body.

4. Desire to escape

When we are under great pressure, we want to divert our attention, which is why we are most likely to have emotional problems in junior high school and senior high school.

5. Loneliness

We can’t avoid feeling lonely, but this is a problem we should overcome ourselves. If we bring this problem into our relationship, it will only make us lonelier.

6. Common interests

Sometimes you are just the best playmates of each other. You can share interesting things. What exists between you is not the feeling of love.

7. Infatuation

Beautifying the other party too much, failing to accept the imperfections of the other party, and falling in love with the other party unreasonably are all part of infatuation.

8. Pity

You may involuntarily sympathize with the other party’s problems, thinking that you can bring salvation to the other party and help him change. In fact, it is you who are dragging down.

9. A substitute for family affection

When the family can’t give us a warm embrace, love may become a substitute, blinding your eyes in choosing the object.

10. Brief first love between boys and girls

This sudden feeling of liking each other will disappear inexplicably and will not last.

11. Revenge romance

When we are frustrated in our relationship, in order to prove our value, we may develop a new relationship, but then we will only hurt each other or ourselves more, which will not solve the problem.

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