In the past, Tony used to kiss me goodbye every day before going to work, but now he doesn’t say hello before leaving. When I called his company, he said “I’m busy now”, and the phone “clicked” and hung up; The two of us had dinner together. In the past, he often brought me dishes without saying that even the fish was sent to my bowl after the thorns were cleaned. Now I have carefully prepared dinner. He stirred his chopsticks carelessly, and at most commented that “this is salty, that is weak, this dish is not washed, and that is not fried enough”. In the past, he always gave me some hints. Now, even if I lie naked in front of him, he won’t have the slightest interest. After a while, we agreed to divorce.
Finally, he will go on a business trip for a month. I was quiet after he left. Sleep finally has quality, and no one is around anymore complaining that your figure is not sexy enough, the clothes you wear are too old-fashioned, and you look like a mummy in bed without any passion, let alone skills. But after a week, I also went to the city where he was on business because of my business.
It happened that I saw Tony as soon as I settled down. At that time, I was wearing a thin silk translucent shirt, red, and a pair of Leggings under it. It was not beautiful, but it was very sexy. Seeing my dress, I clearly saw the strange look in his eyes. He used to live next door to me, but he also has a male colleague. In order to save money, I also live with a female colleague.
Tony texted me in the evening: I miss you very much tonight! S · h · e’s song floated out of a KTV not far away: “I want to adhere to the semi sugar principle for love, which will always make you feel that you are not satisfied. If there is something sweet like nothing, you won’t feel tired. I want to adhere to the semi sugar principle for love, and really don’t need to stick together every day…” I thought thoughtfully.
I’ll go back the next day after I finish my work. It is estimated that nobody slept well that night. Tony took me to eat my favorite boiled fish the next day with dark circles under his eyes. We ate all afternoon. Later, it seemed that he had something unresolved and proposed to stay with me. I knew it was late and I couldn’t go back today. It happened that his colleague said that he would not come back tonight if he had activities.
As the saying goes, “if you don’t feel guilty, you won’t be afraid of someone knocking at the door in the middle of the night.”. Although Tony and I don’t feel sorry for each other, we did something shameful. We were afraid that our colleagues would suddenly come back or someone would knock at the door at night.
Tony sat beside me and looked at me very seriously. He couldn’t help poking my hair. A strange feeling covered my mouth. Tony’s face became very close
The next day, Tony looked at me affectionately: “… I really felt it at that time last night… Shall we get back together…”
Afterwards, we thought about this passionate “affair” and found it unbelievable. The “cheating” between husband and wife that night rekindled our passion for sex. With this experience, we began a formal “month end couple”: we met once a month. Eh, I don’t know why, the separation has activated the nerves of our husband and wife who care about each other. Especially when we get together at the end of the month, it has stimulated the surging emotion of “farewell is better than newlywed”
Point analysis: in this era of love popularity and fatigue, many people feel that a single bed before marriage is large, and a two meter bed after marriage is small. Therefore, a new emotional proposition is called “semi sugar doctrine”. For this doctrine, the Taiwanese women’s Group s · h · E has its own declaration: “I will adhere to semi sugar doctrine for love, which will always make you feel that you are not satisfied. If there is something sweet like nothing, you will not feel tired. I will adhere to semi sugar doctrine for love, and really don’t stick together every day…” when passion is no longer there, it will trigger not only physical distance, but also psychological distance. Men and women who enjoy the “semi sugar doctrine” lifestyle have their own reasons, and those who have no choice but to pursue it deliberately have both. “Existence is reasonable”, which constitutes a landscape in today’s marriage and family life. Just like with drinks, half a spoonful of sugar is enough, and half of it is just right. Don’t throw yourself into it wholeheartedly. Too sweet, too greasy and too full will only accelerate the demise of love, and know how to advance and retreat. This may be the view of love in the new century. So if you think your love is a little boring, it’s better to be nostalgic than to meet. This may be the most effective for men and women. Of course, it’s very difficult. A double room and a single bed are OK. “If you love me, stay away from me.”. How to control the concentration and not turn semi sugar into sugar free is the core of the problem.
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