In daily life, many men have said the following six sentences to women, which may be very indifferent to men, but it will make women latent disappointment in marriage.
1. When my wife goes out, don’t say: what’s the use of dressing up so beautiful
It’s not that many women don’t like to dress up, but they lose their courage to dress up in front of men’s “what’s the use of dressing up so beautiful”. When their beloved becomes a yellow faced woman because they no longer dress up, men think that women can’t do it. Everyone has a love of beauty, so when a woman dresses up carefully, she is not trying to seduce other people’s husbands, but showing herself to her beloved.
2. When a wife is concerned about her children, don’t say: you spoiled them
The inherent male chauvinism of Chinese men makes many children excessively attached to their mothers in childhood. Scientifically speaking, men’s education of children is more effective than women’s, because men often use things rationally, while women use things sensibly. Men often say that women spoil children, but men can’t see the hard work of women working for their families as adults. When women spoil children, Men should correct their children’s mistakes instead of complaining about women spoiling them.
3. When your wife asks you for advice on choosing clothes, don’t say, “whatever you wear is OK.”
A woman falling in love with a man can kill too many hobbies and even lose too many friends for a man. A man is a woman’s day, so a woman longs for her lover to appreciate her. Women love to go shopping. I believe all men understand this. If you go shopping with your lover, when a woman is standing in a clothing store choosing carefully, a man must not show impatience. He must give reasonable suggestions. This will make a woman feel that you care about her.
4. When your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel, don’t scold your wife at your mother-in-law
Husband and wife will quarrel, not to mention mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Quarrels sometimes hurt each other’s feelings, but rational quarrels can also enhance feelings. When a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel, a man will certainly be in a dilemma. Both sides are the two most important women in his life. At this time, the best way for a man is to persuade both sides to stop quarreling. Never think that his wife is his own. Scolding her in front of her mother-in-law will not only destroy the feelings between husband and wife, And it will make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more and more rigid.
5. Don’t complain too much when your wife comes home late occasionally
Men can socialize outside, but why can’t women? As an individual, there will always be occasions for us to work overtime or socialize. It seems that men’s socializing has become a matter of course, while women’s socializing in the eyes of men is regardless of their families, which is obviously unfair to women. Of course, Chinese women do not have social intercourse every day. When they do occasionally, men must show their magnanimity and recognition.
6. Don’t dig at each other when quarrelling
Don’t hit people in the face, and don’t expose their shortcomings when swearing. It seems that everyone knew this famous saying before junior high school, but as a husband and wife, when they quarrel, they always use some old memories to dig at each other, which will not only tear the wounds in each other’s hearts, but also make each other more cold.
Being a man is very tired in order to earn money, and being a woman is also very tired in order to maintain a good family. In family life, we should all play our own roles and give each other more tolerance, understanding and praise. I am convinced that many family conflicts will be avoided.
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