1. You can’t afford to be hurt by vicious ambiguity.
Warmth and ignorance are divided into benign and malignant. Benign ambiguity points to love. As for whether it can develop into love later, it depends on the favorable weather, place and people. There is also a kind of malignant ambiguity, that is, ambiguity for ambiguity. In other words, it’s like a party to have fun with someone. You go happily. You see a large table full of delicious food. You want to jump on it and eat a big meal, but you are warned that you can only look at it, smell it, and not eat it. How annoying it is. If I told you in advance, would you still go?
The terrible thing is that no one will ever tell you in advance. The person (usually a man) who likes to play ambiguous starts with a look of “looking up to you”, throwing spinach in autumn at you and saying something meaningful to you. “Accidentally” touching you with your shoulder or finger, which makes you flustered. Every day, I think “is he in love with me? Am I in love with him”
As you think and guess, your brain hurts, and you gradually get better under his temptation. The more you look at that person, the more you are moved. Your mind is led by him. It is soft and itchy. You can’t help playing this hidden game with 120000 enthusiasm. It’s beautiful. Suddenly, you find that everything comes to an abrupt end. You find that the end point is not a red line, but a nothingness
I’m so stupid. It’s not good to keep running or to stop suddenly. Or, everything is still going on, playing around is still in place, and you don’t know whether to stop or move on – it’s your bad luck to meet this guy. He didn’t come because of love, just to find an ambiguous partner. I know a man who sows the seeds of ambiguity every time he goes to a new place. His life motto is: “keep an ambiguous relationship with every woman I know.”
Malignant ambiguity is the enemy of love. You think it is love. It is not and will never be. Many people mistakenly believe that love is the same thing. Knowing that it is hopeless, they still indulge themselves in it and waste the good time.
A man has his purpose in playing ambiguous. A woman should not naive enough to think that only he is playing ambiguous, but forget that the mantis catches the cicada and the Yellow finch is behind. The man who plays ambiguous is the Yellow Finch, hiding behind him and waiting for an opportunity to take what he wants from you. Everything else is off the table. In addition to nausea and ambiguity, the following secrets women can’t help but know.
2. 99% of men who play ambiguous will not play with only one person.
Since they are willing to play this game, they will play it more thoroughly. Compared with only one object, men like to circle among several women and enjoy the pleasure of being surrounded by flowers. The remaining 1% are heterotaxy among men who are flirting. The probability of this encounter is too small to be ignored.
3. When a man is flirting, the key is whether he is flirting or not.
Play is fun, ambiguity is hell. Yes, in their eyes, this ambiguity is only playing after all. Because it is playing, it is impossible to be serious. It is impossible to tell you promises and sincerity. If you choose to be serious, it will be clear at a glance who will lose and who will win in the end. Women who want true feelings will be hurt 99% once they are with them.
4. Men who are flirting always think they are right.
Men who think that they can afford to play ambiguous always have a little bit of self righteousness, a little bit of narcissism, a little bit of self deception, thinking that women around them can be attracted by them, and then reach the situation of calling and waving. For these narcissistic men, the most powerful weapon that can make them wake up is the loud rejection of women.
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