In 2007, a TV play “struggle”, which tells the story of the post-80s generation, caused a lot of repercussions in society. Some people tease that this is a post-80s story performed by a post-50s director, a post-60s screenwriter, and a group of Post-70s actors. The actors in the play, except for the articles, are mostly from the 1970s. As soon as the series became popular, the media spread the scandal of Ma Yili and Tong Dawei, but suddenly reported the article and the news of Ma Yili’s marriage, which shocked everyone. In the play, Nan Nan and Charlene are just good friends, but they have produced the most brilliant spark in real life. Of course, the most noticeable point is that there is a great difference in age between them. The female is 9 years old and the male is 9 years old. It really takes a lot of courage~~
The popularity of the film “33 days of lovelorn” once again made the little man’s article burn. The happy marriage between him and his beloved wife, Ma Yili, made many people envious. The birth of their daughter, Ai Ma, added a lot to their love. While enjoying this happiness, the two also show their love in front of each other from time to time, announcing their happiness to everyone. Sister brother love, which was difficult to be accepted in the past, is now verified by more and more people. Age is no longer a stumbling block to marriage, and marriage can be free from age.
For a long time, people have been influenced by traditional concepts. They think that the male of both sides of a marriage should always be a little older than the female, so that they can take care of and love their wife. But in today’s society, age is no longer an obstacle for two people to stay together. Even if a woman is older than a man, she can still live a happy life. In the complex entertainment circle, the phenomenon of sister brother love is very common. In addition to the article and Ma Yili, Zhang Jie and Xie Na, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng, Da s and Wang Xiaofei, etc. all broke through the shackles of age and finally achieved a happy marriage. There are so many enviable sister brother relationships. What magic weapon does it have to win? According to my personal analysis, the reasons include the following two points:
one reason is that “sister type” girlfriends don’t put pressure on men
Many times, girls love to be petulant. When something goes wrong with them, they are easy to cry, drop things and go back to their mother’s house. And “sister type” women have experienced the ups and downs of love for many times, and have learned how to make their position the most comfortable and what distance is the best for two people. They will never embarrass men with some narrow-minded behavior. They know more about life and have rich experience in all aspects. In this way, men will not have much pressure, but will put more energy into their career, without spending time teaching a little girl to grow up, let alone worrying that “sister type” women are prone to make a fuss and lose their temper. This is a great gospel for men who are working hard and eager to devote themselves to their careers.
reason two: sister and brother love each other. They have the same life habits and complementary personalities
Women who are in love with younger siblings do not have the quality of being young and beautiful, and men do not have the advantage of being rich in income when they are older. At this time, the relationship between two people is more pure, which is restored to the need for communication and emotion. It must be the first condition for two people to get together. Only when our thoughts are at the same level can we communicate, and only when our personalities are complementary can we communicate more easily. Some people say that “character determines marriage”, which is not unreasonable, but it is not that it is good to have the same character. In the selection formula of a good man, life habits are higher than personality, that is to say, he should first choose people with consistent life habits, and then consider personality factors. Therefore, an important point for the success of sister brother love is that the two people have the same life habits and complementary personalities.
However, in reality, not all sister brother relationships can go on happily. Some sister brother relationships that were combined did not blossom and bear fruit, and they reaped the happiness that should belong to them. Sometimes, the sister brother relationship will also bring a lot of trouble. The most common is that girls complain that boys are not mature enough, and men complain that their girlfriends are too nagging. Over time, their feelings will fade. For this situation, from the perspective of a plastic surgeon, I would like to make two suggestions, hoping to help people who are trying to find a happy sister brother relationship.
1. “Sister type” women should learn to put aside their maternal nature and learn to let themselves return to their youth.
Women should not be too maternal and dote on you, because your habitual payment will make men feel that they do not need to undertake corresponding family obligations. And women will always feel too tired one day, and then ask for change. But both of them are used to the family responsibility model, which is difficult to change. It’s better to divide the work early. At the same time, with the success of men’s career and the increase of their income, the necessity for women to rely on their youthful and beautiful appearance to maintain their feelings in marriage or love has increased, so women should also learn to return to their youth.
How can a woman return to her youth? In addition to the use of cosmetics, skin care products and other necessary maintenance, we should also pay attention to a healthy and reasonable diet and take appropriate physical exercise. Of course, there is another way, that is, plastic surgery, which is most popular with female friends at present. Nowadays, many female friends choose plastic surgery to make themselves younger and more beautiful. For example, self fat breast enhancement can make the sagging chest straight and plump; Green fat plump buttocks can make you have smooth and sexy buttocks; Fine liposuction can not only help you remove the excess fat in the fat area, but also help you shape and slim down; Facial fat balance can effectively improve your facial defects and so on. These can be well selected and utilized.
2. “Brother type” men should know how to pay and shoulder their responsibilities.
A sense of responsibility is the foundation of a lasting and happy marriage. A person without a sense of responsibility will not reap happiness. Once a man and a woman who admire each other become a couple, they should be responsible for each other, their children and the society, do their best, and assume their own responsibilities. In particular, the “younger brother type” man in the sister brother relationship must know how to pay and shoulder the responsibility that a man should bear.
In the love between sister and brother, “sister” likes “brother”, some of them are driven by vanity, and like each other’s young and handsome; Some people hope to find a younger man and relive the romantic feeling of girlhood. Young men, on the other hand, tend to see each other’s maturity, steadiness and understanding; Some have been hurt by feelings and want to find a gentle and kind wife; Some have Oedipus complex. No matter what kind of thoughts they (they) have and what kind of love purpose they have, I think it is worth our blessing to be able to boldly choose sister brother love, break through the shackles of age and embark on this road!
Age is no longer a stumbling block in marriage; Sister brother love has now been accepted and recognized by more and more people. This is not only from the pursuit of happiness, but also from the most true and strong love in the bottom of my heart!
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