It is said that the person you kiss on New Year’s Eve will share your love and affection in the coming year. Such a new year’s kiss can bring good luck to your relationship with the person you kiss. So, can kisses really affect your future relationships?
what kind of kiss destroys a relationship
Research shows that this is really possible. Kissing can be used as an evaluation strategy for partners. It can help you look at a potential partner, and the first kiss can greatly affect the future of your relationship to some extent (although mainly from the negative side). A study 1 investigated 58 men and 122 women. The researchers asked these men and women, “have you ever noticed this phenomenon? When you like someone, you find that you are not interested in him after the first kiss with him?” Among them, 59% of men and 66% of women answered “yes”.
If a bad kiss can kill the bud of a relationship, what is a bad kiss? In a study of college students, whether your breath is fresh or not largely determines the desire of others to kiss you. Especially for women, male halitosis is very difficult to tolerate. Another very important point is that men tend to like wet kisses, while women are very reluctant to wet kisses with a person who has not been in contact for long.
kissing often enhances feelings
No matter for men or women, kissing absolutely plays an extremely important role in physical caress. Men and women think that the touch of lips is more private than snuggling, holding hands, hugging and massaging. In a study of adolescents and young people, those who kissed more often were more satisfied with their love. One of the reasons is that the friction between little lovers is easier to solve when there is physical caress, which of course includes kissing. Kissing can promote emotional intimacy, and many couples report that kissing after sex can strengthen the connection between two people, and they also have a desire to kiss after orgasm.
Of course, this also makes sense in principle, because kissing can increase the level of oxytocin in the body, which can promote communication between people. (quietly, oxytocin has other uses. See Viagra. You have rivals! ）
Kissing relieves stress
Kissing also has a certain effect of healing and reducing stress. In one study, some patients with atopic dermatitis (the main symptom is itchy skin, which is related to heredity and allergy) were divided into kissing groups. They would spend 30 minutes kissing with their partners, and then take allergen tests. Compared with those in the control group who did not kiss their partners, patients in the kissing group had less allergic symptoms.
There is also a study on married people and long-term cohabitants. Over a period of six weeks, the researchers asked a group of partners participating in the experiment to increase the frequency of kissing. Finally, participants in the group who increased the frequency of kissing reported that they felt less stress and were more satisfied with their relationship with their partner than those in the control group who did not ask for it.
It seems that a bad kiss can directly lead to the end of a possible relationship, and kissing more often will have a positive impact on your relationship and health. In short, if you and Ta have no problem with oral hygiene, you may as well find excuses such as Christmas, new year’s day, Spring Festival and Valentine’s day, and find a romantic place to practice more.
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