Personality incompatibility has always been the biggest culprit leading to breakups and even divorces. In fact, this is not surprising. After all, it is not easy to find a person who completely conforms to your own personality. I believe that many people have similar experiences. At the beginning of their meeting, they always felt that everything was right and everything was what you liked. So they began to communicate with great longing. After the communication, they gradually found that your personality was not suitable and there were contradictions. So they resolutely chose to break up. So how do we judge whether the character of each other is suitable for ourselves? The Japanese culturezine website published an article on May 22 to introduce how to judge whether your personality is suitable.
Japanese psychologist Naito said that we must judge whether the character of the other party is suitable for us by our own intuition and our first impression of the other party. According to him, so far, countless life experiences have shown that people’s intuition and first impression are often correct. So when you look at him, you think he’s the right person, so he’s probably the right person. What is intuition? In fact, the so-called human intuition is the feeling and reaction of human intuitive instinct. For example, in a foreign country, in an elevator with only two people, women’s instinctive reaction is, why is that person so annoying? Go down the elevator quickly. For example, people are unwilling to walk on dirty roads and so on. It can be considered that human intuition is at work.
In addition, Naito added that not all the time, your intuition is sensitive. They sometimes fail. For example, when you are unwell, your intuition will become very dull. In addition, when you try to communicate with each other with various impure purposes, your intuitive judgment is often wrong.
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