10 tips to clean up emotional garbage

1. Don’t mind that hug so much. It’s just a hug after all

The reason why the feelings of the past are attractive is mostly because the current environment is better. Only when people are happy can they express their true feelings more easily. So don’t mind his passion for his former lover. Maybe that’s his pride because he has you.

Even if the hug was very warm, at least I didn’t hide it from you. As a successful woman, you really should show the corresponding magnanimity and make him more proud in the new year.

2. A woman’s mean back is often due to her lack of confidence

Men can think like this: women run on their husbands in public, often just to improve their status and self-confidence, or simply to “talk addiction”. And there is a law that everyone knows: when a woman says “no”, she actually says “yes” in her heart. When a woman is willing to say “yes”, she is not a woman. By the same token, if your wife says you’re stupid 12 times, it’s like praising you for being smart 12 times – it’s worth the year-end reward.

3. You will punish him for his playfulness

Sometimes men are like this. When they marry a daughter-in-law, they think they have another mother. They are more fun than before they get married. Then you should learn from your mother-in-law, especially when you are uncomfortable but he still goes out to meet friends. Facts have proved that it is difficult for him to change, and if you don’t attack him, he can only work harder. Therefore, it’s better for him to have a good time, you to complain and you to gain and lose, than for you to be sulky.

4. Love with freshness is always better than love with wax

Maybe it’s the lingering tenderness to you that makes her tired, so the coldness after the ear and temples are just a rest. You can be dissatisfied with this, but don’t make any conclusion. If you really can’t justify yourself, you can try taking a short break. Even if you can’t feel “victory over newlyweds”, at least you can let the opposite slightly feel your distance, and also disperse your lost mentality. Since human feelings have peaks and valleys, your relationship can also conform to this law. It will alleviate some frustration during the period of calming down passion and will not accumulate into resentment.

5. You may die when he raises his fist.

As long as men are not cowards, most of them will be a little violent. Those who don’t do it are just more able to control their emotions. When you are angry with his rudeness for half a year, you can look back at this matter. Unless he is rude, most of you can find your own mistakes. The rest is to teach him how to deal with this matter. Of course, you can make three rules for him. No matter how wrong you are, if he starts again, he won’t want to see you again.

6. Maybe she just forgot that she was a woman for the first time and spent a night drunk at her intimate home

In fact, people will cheat during the day, and it’s not a problem that they don’t end up at night. If you are worried about this, you might as well try whether you are crazy and forget to go home. If you taste the sweetness, you will understand the little girl’s playful mind. Marriage means more to women than men the loss of freedom. If marriage makes you narrow, you’d better convince yourself. Otherwise, your wife’s one night absence won’t affect her, but it will become a block in your heart. This kind of depression is purely self inflicted.

7. Women nag to exercise

If you have listened to her nagging for 11 months, discuss it and let yourself nag for the last month of the year. After listening to Chen sesame rotten millet for a year, it’s time for her to listen to your complaints and comments. This form of communication is very effective for nagging wives. Most importantly, it will let strong men release all kinds of “small bellied Chicken Intestines” accumulated in their hearts. Even if this can’t change her nagging habit, it can at least make you feel better without hurting her. That’s how couples come here.

8. It’s better to always find women than to always find women

If his work is related to the opposite sex, you only need to do some psychological precautions in technology. Perhaps he does have a lot of affinity for women. If it’s really painful to see him toil for women’s affairs all year round, then write a high-profile year-end summary for him: a comrade has done a good job in women’s work in the past year. I hope that he will make persistent efforts next year and win the support of more female comrades, especially his lover comrades. I think he must be very satisfied with your attitude. Let him take the initiative to improve the status quo, better than you continue to sulk for it next year.

9. Although the wool is somewhat prickly, it is very warm

The experience and understanding accumulated after years of marriage will really let you know more about each other’s shortcomings and shortcomings, and attack each other more skillfully. However, when you plan to settle accounts in the autumn, should you also think that the understanding over the past seven years has also made the other party more meticulous when caring for you? If you also count these events, you will find that although wool makes people itch, it is still warm.

10. Forgetting your wedding anniversary is not terrible.

It’s better than forgetting to get married. It’s better to give him a chance before the new year than to brood over it. Set up a “520 day anniversary of marriage” or something to make him pay tribute to his sins. If he is also guilty of his forgetfulness, he will care about this “520 day anniversary of marriage”. If you can get double or even more anniversary gifts, you will be happy for many days.

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