Women are most likely to send flirting signals during ovulation, while men flirt because of genetic memory during evolution, such as the frequency of eye rotation, the degree of smile, whether the hands hold the chest or show an open posture when talking, and even whether the head is slightly tilted to one side. These non-verbal gestures are signals of “contact readiness”, which reveal the degree of your favor for the person in front of or around you.
In other words, you may have started a Flirting Game without knowing it.
Don’t be afraid, not all flirtations are premeditated and purposeful. This is one of the research results of Jeffrey simp, director of the social psychology program of the University of Minnesota in the United States, who is studying the role of attraction and flirtation in the female ovulation cycle in early 2008.
All people flirt, and people can’t help it. This is because the word flirting must be in the program that people are born with. Illinois eberfert, a behavioral researcher at the Max Planck Society in Germany, also found through his research on the documentary filmed in the 1960s that African women who have not undergone civilization evolution will also look at the man they love for a long time, tilt their heads slightly and smile slightly, which is no different from modern women.
Biological evolutionists say that in the primitive human stage, those flirting experts often got more partners. This is also the fundamental reason why flirtation survived in the process of human evolution, because those species close to humans will not send flirting signals to the opposite sex aimlessly, and only humans will.
In Simpson’s study, one of the most interesting results is that 80% of women usually hate smooth talkers and don’t like being the prey of flirtation with each other, except during ovulation. In the ovulation period, women know that the other party is a flirt, and will not refuse the signal sent by the other party. Moreover, women in ovulation are also easy to attract men who like flirting.
Although Simpson has no further scientific basis to support this abnormal behavior of women during ovulation, he affirms that the reason why women do this is also related to their genetic memory of knowing as many mating partners as possible during ovulation.
What’s more, these women who are ovulating do not know that they have sent out an invitation to attract each other. Just like Simpson’s research: “many people simply do not know that most of their nonverbal behaviors have actually revealed their real needs or genetic memory, nor do they know how powerful these signals are.”
Another study on flirtation shows that flirtation of modern people is no longer just for sexual intercourse, but has become a stepping stone for the expansion of interpersonal relations.
Timothy piripanre, an American independent sexology researcher who has studied flirting for 30 years, said in an interview on January 23 that 60% of flirting actually has no practical purpose. “Flirting just opens a window for people, not to be affirmed, nor to want to hit a nail, but just to play a complex psychological game.”.
People like to play this game, just as naturally as they need to eat when they are hungry. Sometimes, it’s just to open an interpersonal deadlock. Therefore, these aimless flirtations usually occur unconsciously, although what the other party wants to decode the received information is completely beyond his control.
So we can explain that when people don’t know how to deal with interpersonal relationships, they may also flirt. Even people will decide whether to continue with each other from the way they flirt with each other.
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