To maintain a marriage, it is not enough to simply love each other. If you can’t find a way of business that suits both parties in the long-term relationship, it is very easy to quarrel. Then, like a snowball, it gets bigger and bigger, and finally leads to the breakdown of the relationship between both parties.
It’s important to learn to communicate
Love is a matter for two people, but marriage is a matter for two families. Originally, two families that have no relationship need to get along in the most intimate way, so cultural differences and regional differences across the middle will produce many contradictions.
No one can avoid contradictions. Our problem is how to easily resolve them. At this time, it is very important to have a reasonable way of communication. When two people communicate, they should express their thoughts rather than their emotions. Only in this way can communication really work instead of adding fuel to the fire, and can the two sides get along more harmoniously.
Respect and equality are indispensable
A man is the head of a family, but you can’t ignore that his wife is your greatest support and lifelong partner. You should respect and love her. The idea that men are inferior to women can easily destroy your marriage. Marriage does not mean that you can enjoy everything she does for you. A stable marriage relationship still needs your joint efforts. As the hostess of the family, if your husband doesn’t help you with the housework, don’t yell at him often. You should understand his hard work and pressure and tolerate him.
Praise and love should be expressed
People often use such expressions as “sorry”, “thank you” and “I miss you” to friends, but they often think that such expressions are not needed between husband and wife and family, and they are not used to expressing their inner feelings with these words. This idea is not correct. A word of sorry, a thank you, and a hug all have magical power. They can resolve the fatigue, complaints and misunderstandings of relatives. It is more necessary to express love between relatives, and expression will also make them closer.
To keep the marriage fresh, we often prepare small surprises in life, and we should always tell each other that we love you. There are many small things that can keep the marriage fresh. As long as you still love each other, you will definitely be willing to pay for these things.