When some people are in love, they often have no sense of security, so they will try to find out whether the other party really likes them, but this will hurt their feelings. So can love stand the test? Do you want to test each other when you are in love?
Therefore, love is not unable to withstand temptation, but because temptation itself destroys the purity of love itself. Because we were together at the beginning because we loved each other deeply, and the feeling was that we needed each other and agreed with each other; If you want to test, it will not only destroy the purity of love, but also destroy the trust of each other and love. It is a blasphemy to each other’s feelings.
Many people always like to test whether the other party’s feelings for themselves are true in a relationship. For example, she may choose to disrespect the other party in a relationship and see how the other party reacts. But what is your purpose in doing this. If they continue to respect you, you will feel guilty. And if the other side doesn’t continue to respect you, you will feel lost.
Probing is not good for a relationship. What it brings is only damage to the relationship between two people. Moreover, it can not be repaired in this lifetime. Even if two people try to forget, there will be a crack in it. Therefore, when you are in love, you should get along with each other well, and do not have the idea that the other side will betray you. Your distrust is probably the real reason why two people cannot go to the end.
In fact, this kind of behavior of testing the other party is fundamentally depleting your sense of security in love and destroying the heart city you have built. Although good love can give you enough tolerance, it also has its weaknesses and covers. If you really want to cherish it, then don’t hurt it wantonly.