Women want to know a man’s privacy, because only in this way can they more easily penetrate into his inner world and become his spiritual partner.
1. Work status
In a man’s heart, he thinks that his girlfriend is here to share happiness. He wants to give you the best and give you happiness. Therefore, men don’t want you to know about things at work, especially unhappy things at work. Profit or loss? Is the bonus less or more? Is the boss good to himself? Men generally don’t like women at home to ask questions like this. He knows that even if he tells you, it won’t help. Because things still exist, and you can’t solve them, I can’t help you. Telling you will only increase your troubles. He doesn’t want to distract you and worry you. The reason why men want to keep some facts secret is that they don’t want to bring the day’s affairs into the night. Therefore, men don’t like women’s interference in work. It’s not a pleasant thing for all male emperors to listen to politics behind a curtain.
2. Emotional experience
Female friends are very interested in their boyfriend’s past, especially his ex girlfriend, so you may always struggle with this issue and have to know his emotional experience.
Emotional experience is their privacy to men. Generally speaking, they won’t tell you casually. Don’t think that your boyfriend doesn’t love you. He doesn’t tell you because he is afraid that you think he still remembers his ex girlfriend and that you will live in depression and be unhappy from now on. Everyone has a past, and he doesn’t pursue your past, so why bother with the past? As long as he only has you in his heart now, as long as you are single-minded to you. Let his emotional experience become a dusty past. Set his secret as a “minefield” in your heart, and always remind yourself not to touch it. Even if you hear a word, don’t ask the bottom of it. What good is your stubbornness and meanness in addition to arousing his memories and even reciting the benefits of that “she”?
3. This is my own business.
Maybe your man will often say “this is my own business” in front of you. When you hear this, please don’t chase after him. You know, if you keep asking questions, you’ll only end up hurting both sides.
If he goes out to socialize, you don’t have to ask who he is with. If he wants to tell you, he will definitely tell you. Trust your man.
Women work in detail, like to communicate, like to ask questions, and even get to the top of things. So generally speaking, he won’t tell you about some small things. He has his own sense of proportion… Many times, he will feel that it is the man’s own business. Women don’t need to fuss about it at all, because the man’s business needs to be handled by the man. Just give him some space. When he needs you as his wife, don’t try to be a planner of his work and life. Everyone has a psychological need to have his own living space, and men are naturally no exception. Therefore, a woman’s wise choice is to let him go crazy, what kind of friends, work conditions… His “private plots” are cultivated by him!
4. I like watching porn.
I often hear many female sexual friends say that their husbands or boyfriends often indulge in porn, and even watch it when they have sex. What’s more, they need to learn some actions in porn themselves. Many female sexual friends even want to break up or divorce him for this problem.
Men like to watch porn, just because men are “visual”. The strength of men’s sexual awareness of watching pornographic films is determined by the functional relationship between their inherent eroticism and the difficulty of getting close to their objects. Of course, it’s not wrong to watch porn, but it won’t work if you’re too addicted. You can watch it with him and follow his example. In the process of watching, you should give him appropriate guidance, communicate more, and understand his inner thoughts on porn. Only in this way can he not be addicted. If you are disgusted and opposed to him, he may continue to indulge.
Remember that this is his privacy. Don’t talk about it like a good thing. Just know it in your heart. If others know his privacy, he will definitely break up with you without saying a word.
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