performance 1: have no opinions on marriage feelings
It can be said that there is a netizen (replace it with Xiao Li), who is a person who has no independent opinions on marriage emotions. If you are a woman, you must clarify one question before you get married, that is, whether he really wants to marry you. If not, you must pay attention to it. Men are different from women. A man is reluctant to marry. As long as his heart is not on you, he is a stone that can’t keep you warm.
Of course, some people may say that men disguise themselves before marriage, which is not bad, but women also have to dig three feet to find out the truth, right? At least you have to have your own opinion, right? Can this man marry? In fact, we can find some clues from many details.
performance 2: obedient and resolute
It can be imagined that at the beginning of the marriage, Xiao Li was not as often beaten as she is now. This has a lot to do with her long-standing obedience and decision-making. She knew that he was still in love with his first girlfriend, so she accepted it in a certain way and even deliberately imitated his girlfriend. But what a stupid thing this imitation is. It is said that “drawing a tiger does not turn into a dog”. This imitation is more pathetic than imitating his mother to pull his ear, or imitating a ghost to scare him to death in the middle of the night.
To be honest, when the marriage is in this situation, the only choice is to continue to be himself, and to do better, so that he can look at it with new eyes, and never let his life have the slightest shadow of his ex girlfriend. I am myself, we are now, and now we are very happy. This is the direction Xiaoli should strive for.
performance 3: can’t stand sweet talk, forget the pain after healing the scar
Let’s talk about the scars on Xiao Li. For men who beat women, I don’t want to say more. I just want to give them one word: die, no, it should be three words “die quickly”!
What a poor woman! In the past five years of marriage, how much pain she should have endured. She was beaten and coaxed again and again. The coaxed and coaxed people had split personalities, and it was difficult to distinguish between the inside and the outside of the play. However, she has always healed her scar and forgotten the pain, and she can even give birth to a child for him. Does this also show that she is somewhat “cheap”? Just really pity this innocent child! If the sky is always blue and it is her, he may hit me twice, but there will never be a third time, because when he hits the first time, he must know that he is wrong and apologize to me. I may forgive him according to the situation, but he will never be allowed to have a second time. If he calls the second time, it’s very simple to call him back with more crazy and even despicable means, and then say goodbye to him lying in the hospital.
Although we look at the vast world, “substitutes” have never been a flash in the pan. We think about the popularity of Shanzhai machines in the past two years, but after the popularity, they are lonely and abandoned. Even if your substitute is better than the original one and is cheap and good in quality, it is still better than the original one in people’s eyes. Only the original one can maximize its value. Therefore, women in marriage must resolutely not be substitutes, which is your right. Before marriage, you should not be “substitutes” for his mother, his ex girlfriend and other women. After marriage, you should be careful not to be replaced by junior three and the lover of your dreams. In today’s materialistic society, the battle for marriage defense should even start before marriage!
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