I. perfect woman
Love expression: over self denial, self exacting, always right.
Strange women for example: women with perfect behavior and morality are born male killers. Excessive self-restraint, self exacting and being right all the time are still narcissistic in nature, because I love myself and do not allow myself to make mistakes.
Man’s way: share the joy of making mistakes with her.
Like the myth, you can fall in love with a fairy like person, but you can only marry an ordinary woman home. Your problem is whether you can turn a fairy into a human. In fact, life is the thing that needs to be vulgar and arbitrary most. Share the joy of making mistakes, laziness and casual happiness with her, and limit her efforts for you to a level that you can return.
II. suspicion face
Love expression: he likes to play tricks, but deliberately pretends to be generous.
Blame women for example: general suspicion is only a means of flirting with women, and excessive suspicion may be a mixture of defect and aggression. The women in mobile phone are a little paranoid and hysterical. They are sensitive to deception and think that men are bullying themselves if they don’t tell the truth.
Man’s way: the most effective strategy is to pretend to be stupid, belittle yourself from time to time, and never be self righteous.
Suspicion is often a means of relationship control. You should learn to “obey unconditionally”. Of course, for a guilty man, if you want to fight for enough freedom from suspicious women, you should keep two principles in mind:
Principle 1: establish necessary rules at the beginning of love, such as not having common friends and not interfering in each other’s space.
Principle 2: don’t make the love relationship too close. Keeping an appropriate distance can protect her and you. Suspicious women are very sensitive to intimacy. Once a certain love pattern is formed, you must persist for decades.
III. cold face
Love expression: often indulges in fantasy, does not take the initiative to care about people, and normal information in interactive relationships is often invalid.
Strange woman for example: indifference derived from hostility is acceptable, hostility can be resolved sooner or later, and indifference will also be converted into warmth. The most worrying indifference comes from extreme narcissism, which is a personality defect, a lack of sexual drive, and no ability to love. Narcissistic personality is an undifferentiated mud mass with no internal structure. When it is angry, it is not angry, and when it is happy, it is not happy. With such a woman in your arms, you may even feel lonely and cold.
You have to create some unique communication methods to achieve communication between two people. Of course, some very independent women also have a hidden indifference deep in their personality. You can’t integrate into her heart, move her, or conquer her.
Man’s way: make simple rules for information and emotional communication to help her get enough security.
If anger cannot be expressed normally, indifference becomes a technique. If you don’t want to admit your mistake, pretending not to know is the only countermeasure. Men who can only accommodate warmth but not indifference are not strong men, because they have too many needs for relationships, which is a kind of dependence.
Being needed by women is often the secret self-esteem and happiness of many men. When faced with a woman who has no desire or desire, everyone will be afraid. No desire is just, and no desire in the family will make the family lifeless. If she treats you with an indifferent face, it is important to formulate simple rules for information and emotional communication to help her gain sufficient security.
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