love stage: women in love stage must not be difficult and overbearing. On the one hand, they may be abandoned. On the other hand, the man may have to marry you because of reality, but after marriage, you will suffer. The love stage is particularly important for cultivating two people’s feelings. If your love object is going to be your confirmed marriage object, it’s best to take some virtuous moves, and don’t let the man who loves you feel cold.
first marriage stage: when you change from a girl to a woman, many roles are waiting to be changed. Maybe you were once the princess of the family, but after you become a wife, you need to learn to take care of complicated household chores, because this is also part of your growth. If you really can’t do it, you can discuss it with your husband. Although the technical content of household chores is not high, you will face it every day. How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a compulsory subject in the first marriage stage. At this time, the man has not deviated from the boy’s true colors, and may be very playful. It is also necessary to put proper pressure on the husband. Don’t play dirty, otherwise the man will also have fear of marriage life.
stable stage: for most couples, they will give birth to children in the first year after marriage. At this stage, the career is relatively stable, the marriage seems to lack momentum, and the seemingly insipid marriage is prone to mistakes. At this time, women may join the ranks of full-time wives for the sake of all-round family considerations. This is a very dangerous signal, because the concept of full-time wives is that women’s emotional and material needs in the future depend on men’s charity, Men at this stage will gradually transform their role as little husbands into big brothers. As the old saying goes: the mouth that eats is short, and the hand that carries it is short. Although he is your husband, what can he do? In addition, coupled with idle paranoia and men’s playfulness, it will be a fatal blow to marriage to suddenly find that marriage is not the same as what they imagined, or that a man is cheating, or that his wife is out of the wall. What should we do in the face of such a marriage?
domestic dog restless stage: if your husband is a man who knows his mistakes and can correct them, you’d better be patient and wait patiently for him to clean up his extramarital feelings and go home obediently; What should I do with a husband who is stubborn and unrepentant? A woman should take on the posture of a shrew, be reasonable and not lose her dignity. She will smoke every time she meets a junior. When she comes home, she and her husband still live in dignity. If they can’t live, they will pack up and leave; If you meet a man who refuses to mend his ways after repeated education and you are unwilling to divorce, it will be terrible, because you can only spend time waiting for Xiaosan to grow old, lose patience, and kick your husband out.
yellow faced woman stage: if your marriage can smoothly transition to the Yellow faced woman stage, it means that you will start to be a mother-in-law. Remember which stage you also came from. No matter whether your mother-in-law was good or bad to you, you should be good to your daughter-in-law. It is said that raising children is to prevent old age, but after marriage, it is usually the daughter-in-law who has the final say. If you want to stop your old life from being troubled, you can get closer to your daughter-in-law, help them take care of their children, and let them concentrate on their career.
no need stage: when you see through life, you will become no need. Even if you have a need, you will not have the energy to fight. At this time, you must take good care of your own body. If the children are busy and you are really tired, find a nanny to take care of your life and that of your wife. Your health is the greatest comfort for children.
Because we have thoughts, there will always be some bumps in life. Maybe we will find out that we have always loved each other deeply only when we are old. What we quarrel about every day is nothing more than some trivial things in life such as “firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea”. It is these trivial things that make us think that love is gone when we are upset. Only when we lose it can we feel the heartache. In today’s society, married men and women should learn to be open-minded, often think about some issues from the perspective of their lovers, and give your lovers more understanding, love and care. Maybe our marriage will become better.
Home is where we can cry loudly when we are sad, where we can heal when we are frustrated, and where we can rest when we are tired. Home needs our life-long energy to care for and give warmth.
We should all love our home.
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