Who should clean up the mess after love

This is indeed a problem we often encounter. For example, if we want to turn off the lights, who will go? If we don’t go, will the lights stay on? Also, if one party is thirsty and doesn’t want to pour water, should the other party help him / her? After sex, women often like to wash, but do men want to go too?

after a woman complains, a man just wants to sleep.

Women often complain that men fall asleep after work. In fact, men don’t want to sleep either. It’s just that men’s bodies are different from women’s, so it’s easier for men to fall asleep after sex. Women often hope that men can lie down and talk to her, or even if it’s just quiet, let them pillow and lean, caress your strong chest and tease your stubble. But most men can’t meet this requirement of women.

why is it easier for men to sleep after sex?

As for why men fall asleep more easily after sex, some scientists explain that men release a mixture of brain chemicals during ejaculation, including adrenaline, serotonin, oxytocin, antidiuretic hormone, nitric oxide and prolactin. The increase of prolactin is related to sleep – when people are sleeping, the content of prolactin is higher than when they are awake (animals will fall asleep soon after being injected with this hormone). Therefore, it is easier for men to fall asleep easily after passion.

please understand men’s sleep after sex

It’s not just fatigue. Some studies show that after a man has sex, he actually feels relaxed. His “fear and tension” are gone, and it’s easier to sleep easily.

So, please understand men’s sleep after sex.

Data proof

According to the survey, 48% of 10000 men in the UK fall asleep immediately after having sex. In China, this figure is as high as 75%. Therefore, women complain and complain, but men still sleep as usual.

Moreover, even if men don’t sleep, they may not like to clean up the mess. I have a friend who likes to smoke after sex. At this time, I’m afraid it’s more depressing for women than sleeping.

the lingering scene is of commemorative significance

Messy sheets, overturned cups, pillows everywhere, clothes falling off, condoms thrown on the ground, paper towels everywhere under the bed… Does this scene look like a crime scene?

Indeed, there are many similarities between the scene of sex and the scene of crime, so some people like to keep the scene of sex, thinking that it is a kind of memory. Or, some people like to collect souvenirs of the scene of sex, just like the famous actress Helen Sinclair said in the film Bullets Over Broadway, “every performance is a birth; and every ending is a death!” For these people, the scene that remains after each sex is of commemorative significance, because they only happen once.

the most unique one

Unique time, place, unique time with this person.

However, in any case, it is still up to the man to clean up or the woman to clean up in the end? Whether to clean up immediately after finishing or the next day after waking up reflects the great differences in personality and habits between men and women.

a man who takes the initiative to clean up the mess deserves love.

If after passion, the man will take the initiative to clean up the mess on the scene, it shows that the man really loves you and thinks for you. At least, right now. For such a man, it is worth giving him his body. However, for men who do not pick up the mess, we can only understand it with a tolerant attitude.

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