Office romance is extremely destructive and destructive. It will be subject to environmental constraints and public opinion supervision. In this process, both spiritual and physical needs are very dark. Once exposed or the novelty disappears, it will become the trouble of one or both parties, and they will have to pay a price.
If you become a third party in an office romance, you must break up with determination, otherwise the longer the time, the harder it will be to get out. The best way to break up is to explicitly ask the other party what kind of life you want, and he / she may never give you this life. Secondly, we should deliberately keep a distance to restore the relationship between the two colleagues. Now there are more and more women cheating in the workplace. Office romance has risen to be the biggest killer of marriage. Among them, five types of working women are the easiest to fall into.
1、 Most of these women are office workers, and they occur between superiors and subordinates. Most of the men are the women’s leaders, bosses, managers and other immediate superiors. The reason is that there are many close contacts at work, some of which are long-term relationships, some of which are men’s love for women’s beauty, or women’s love for men’s talent. Because of the work relationship, the woman is worried about losing her existing job and status, and is willing to form a lover relationship with her.
2、 Most of these cheating women are not willing in heart, but use their bodies to make certain transactions with each other in order to achieve some purpose. For example, college students want to find local works, actors want to change roles, cadres want to promote, employees want to promote, and so on. In short, cheating is to get some benefits, and then have sex with the man. Therefore, most of these relationships are relatively short-lived.
3、 The number of such women who cheat accounts for a large proportion. The man and the woman are colleagues of the company, or they meet by chance at a banquet, on the road, on the street or on the Internet, and have sex because they are in love. Most of these adulterers can maintain a more romantic, lasting, and pure relationship. Another small part is because the family is unhappy, the husband has an affair, or the husband is impotent, which makes it difficult to meet the woman’s sexual needs; Because of her long-term sexual repression, once she meets a suitable candidate, she will throw herself into the arms of a man without turning back.
4、 This kind of cheating women generally do not lack an ideal marriage, but their fashionable and advanced sexual concepts or strong sexual desire make them unable to behave themselves. So when they have a chance, they will not hesitate to cheat. Another is that her husband has an affair and refuses to mend his ways after repeated education, and she is unwilling to divorce because she cares about face. Therefore, Hong xingchu Pei, who took revenge, tried to obtain psychological comfort and balance in an equal way.
5、 This kind of cheating woman has a clear goal, that is, for money. Among them, there are a large number of women at the bottom of society, such as laid-off and divorced women, who exchange their bodies for long-term economic support by “cheating”. Some women who cheat on others usually give a good impression. In the eyes of the public, they are dignified, virtuous, reasonable and lead a very ordinary life. Maybe it’s because it’s too ordinary. Watching that romantic romance on TV makes me feel enviable. Therefore, when they meet suitors, they may go out to have an affair intentionally or unintentionally, either passively or in pursuit of fresh ideas, considering that they will not affect their families or tarnish their reputation.
But then again, cheating is stealing after all. Stealing is invisible and spurned by the world. In short, women who want to have an affair should think twice before they act. Don’t bring yourself lifelong regret because of temporary happiness. A woman who steals love in the workplace, no matter what it is, please let go as soon as possible and let love return to its original position. Only in this way is a smart woman.