In the real world, there is no shortage of women in the man’s world. After marriage entered the insipid stable period, the energy of men’s vitality did not disappear. In the thinking of men with the aim of conquering the world, some men do not use their responsibilities to control their sexual desires. They not only spend money on women, but also stage endless romantic stories, which also bring endless troubles to women.
In fact, in the world of men, there are three women who are always relatively certain, and the fourth woman is uncertain. Many stories are staged by the fourth woman. This also brings endless troubles to women. Married women should pay attention to the fourth woman, and it is irrational to compete with the first woman and the second woman.
First of all, men are born of women. When a man is very young, he has discovered the difference between his mother and his father in the hazy meaning. The majesty and violence of the father and the tenderness and consideration of the mother let the boy know the importance of women to himself. If a mature man is asked to evaluate the status of his parents in his mind, the vast majority of men will choose their mother. This is the role of motherhood in the growth of boys. Married women must learn to respect the first woman in a man’s life.
Secondly, my first love is my lover. Men have absolute superiority over the people and things they like. Men’s emotional development is later than women’s, but when emotions erupt, they are far stronger than women’s. The second woman in a man’s life often appears when the man is not mature or even has little thought. The man doesn’t know the result of love at all and likes a woman in a muddle headed way. This is a physiological impulse, and there is no gestation process. This first feeling is often hard to forget. Many people say that a man loves one woman and marries another woman. No matter what the man’s marriage is, the man will not forget the first woman who hasn’t got it. It is not rational for married women to care about this. It’s painful for a man to give up the first woman. It is not easy to give up.
The wife again. In the emotional turmoil and the pain of losing love, men learn how to face women realistically, and give their marriage to their wives. This is not a man’s helplessness, but the pressure of reality and tradition. I firmly believe that many men enter marriage under the call of happiness and fulfill their responsibilities as men.
For men, women in marriage are harbors. Many men want their wives to understand and support themselves. However, women in marriage often lose their romance and reserve before marriage, more ask men how to do, and more compare their sisters’ men with their own men. Under the control of secular concepts, many women always complain and even blame their men for their incompetence. As a result, men have more fear of their wives.
Women in marriage often make men feel pressured and even blackmailed. As a result, many men are painfully looking for a way out of their pain. Marriage will also light a red light.
Although women’s emotional development is very early, their understanding of marriage and business skills are the same as those of men. In other words, women also need time and experience to educate themselves about marriage. This has buried many hidden dangers in the early life of marriage. Broken marriages within 10 years are often related to this. This is also where men suffer.
The fourth woman is uncertain.
When men can’t accept married women, there are too many external attractions. Countless beautiful women have sprung up in hair salons, baths, singing halls and so on. It is too easy for men to cheat.
With the growth of age, men’s mature charm and career achievements are often favored by the opposite sex. In nature and unnaturalness, whether a man will cheat depends on the man’s responsibilities to the married woman and the family. Although some men are flirtatious, they also work hard.
The development of the Internet has provided many opportunities for men and women to communicate. Misfortune in marriage, emotional loneliness and so on will lead men to seek novelty online. Faced with the rekindled passion, men may choose to cheat.
Therefore, we say that the fourth woman is uncertain, at least the relationship they have established with men is unstable. Many women’s marital pain often comes from this role.
I’m not here to fight for reasons for a man’s cheating, but to say that when a woman chooses and manages a marriage, she needs to identify a good partner.
Generally speaking, men should be a little older, and 3-5 years is a suitable age gap. Compared with men and women of the same age, women’s mental development is relatively better, while men’s development is worse, which is not conducive to emotional development and stability.
Secondly, men’s potential. I have stressed this point again and again. It’s sad for a man who doesn’t develop, especially for a woman who doesn’t have career savvy. There are generally many women that high-quality men can find. The vast majority of women hope to choose relatively high-quality men, especially those with potential. This requires women to have a sense of being ahead of themselves and be able to find potential men.
In addition, how to manage marriage is very important. The so-called good woman is a school, which means that a good woman can bring up a good man in marriage.
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