Why do women have to be dumped once to mature. There is a reason, because I am too young to experience the world
Although it is only a woman, every woman is unique and the only one. When I was studying in the United States, I learned the rule of complimenting a woman: if she is beautiful, praise her beautiful; If she looks ordinary, she is said to have good taste in clothes; Even my clothes are in a mess. I’m thumbing up and yelling, “you look unique!”!
Every woman who thinks she is unique will open her eyes and see her true position in life only after she has been dumped at least once, and her consideration and requirements will become reality.
One girl said she was lovelorn. Despite the ambiguity, it can be seen that she was dumped by her boyfriend. I couldn’t help laughing and gave her three words: first, this is a great good thing; Second, this is a great good thing; Third, this is a great good thing.
Only after being dumped at least once can a woman understand how high the sky is, how thick the earth is, how selfish a man is, how powerless relatives and friends are, and how immature he is.
Only after being dumped at least once will a woman find that she is not the first beautiful woman in the world, nor is she the first talented woman in the world. She is only a woman.
If a woman is unhappy after listening to this, she can say that “every man should be dumped by a woman at least once” despite the gender reversal in the above words. I have no opinion at all.
In fact, every woman should be dumped by a man at least once when she is growing up. And it’s better to dump early than late. It’s better to dump when you’re in love than when you’re married.
Women are often dumped because they insist that men change the lifestyle they are used to. Women in love often take this change for granted.
In Chernyshevsky’s novel what to do, the male lead rophoff changed his life style for his girlfriend Vera and gave up his future as a doctor.
But Vera lives in an era when Russian women have little decision-making power. If rophoff doesn’t marry her, Vera will be sent by her parents to a mediocre who can’t stand it.
Ropkhov can only do this, although he is the first generation of civilian intellectuals in Russia, and has great ambitions in career and politics.
Now that the clock has turned to the 21st century, women are so free that they can decide their own destiny, and they are all living well. There are no great difficulties. Why should men change their lifestyles for you?
Mencius said: “therefore, heaven will bring down great responsibilities, so people must first work hard, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, empty their bodies, and mess with their deeds. Therefore, being patient has benefited them beyond their abilities.”
The first test of any major event is “painstaking efforts” – although the master did not explicitly say that the most painful thing for a man is that a woman does not look at you seriously. If a man is dumped by a woman several times, he can follow Mr. Meng Ke to become a philosopher.
Philip Carey, the male lead in Maugham’s novel the shackles of humanity, almost gave up his future as a doctor because he changed his lifestyle several times for a woman who did not love him.
However, he lived in the mature era of British capitalism. Every time he reached the end of his tether, his relatives would die suddenly, leaving him a legacy that was just enough for the woman’s mischief, allowing him to constantly “explore” his ideal life.
Our economic development has just started, and the process of storing wealth for the people has just begun; Moreover, most of today’s graduate students are the first generation of civilian intellectuals. Too full expectations and too poor resources do not allow them to easily change their lifestyle.
Let’s wait another 100 years. My father’s generation has a bit of wealth to squander. It’s not painful for my son to sell my son’s field. Young men will also be willing to put “human shackles” on women.
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