A fussy woman may be satisfied for a while; A woman with a sharp face may get a moment of vanity, but when you are happy, you may have buried hidden dangers and planted disasters. Pretending to be stupid may have a different perspective.
On Sunday, I went shopping with my girlfriend. On the way, my girlfriend kept telling my husband what he was not: obviously he was in the singing hall, his car was parked outside the singing hall, I called him and asked him, but he said that he was working overtime at work… I pulled out the list of phone bills paid to others from my husband’s bag, and it was a woman’s… the more my girlfriend said, the more angry she became: “I can’t live this kind of life. I want a divorce…” maybe it was just angry words, But think carefully: which is more important than marriage, the husband’s lie and the phone bill?
Just imagine that a man with excellent work would like to follow and watch all day, a noisy defender, or a wise woman who “pretends to be stupid” at an appropriate time? You don’t have to be too close to your husband and suspicious. A husband is like a kite in a woman’s hand. If he loosens the thread in his hand, he will fly higher and farther. If he tightens the thread in his hand properly, that is to say, it can be loose or tight, long or short. It depends on the woman’s wisdom to accurately grasp it. If you don’t want to give up your marriage, don’t give up your kite line.
Sometimes when your husband tells a lie, you don’t need to expose him deliberately, let alone work hard with him. As long as you have sharp eyes and know everything, you can also smile secretly and say: I’m just worried about you. I already know the implication and don’t intend to pursue it. Especially when others are present, you must give him face and protect his “lofty and glorious” image in front of colleagues or friends.
A woman’s tolerance will give her husband a sense of security, and he will appreciate you and love you more and more… I think it will be twice as effective to pretend to be silly with colleagues and friends when appropriate. When my husband was on a business trip to study, a friend of my husband’s boss called, booing me and asking me about my warmth. I was on guard. Unexpectedly, he proposed to make “friends” with me. I was neither angry nor angry, “Giggled:” we are already friends. You are my husband’s friend, of course you are my friend,… Today you must have drunk too much and talked about wine… “Then I pretended to be a fool who didn’t understand customs and hung up the phone with some excuses.
When he doesn’t deviate from the moral course, sometimes he gives way to better defense, give the other side a little space, give him a little room to maneuver, leave him enough face, and give him an opportunity to reflect… Then when he is rational, he will be grateful to you, grateful for your tolerance and protection, and he will treat you as the holy daughter in his heart. Why delay this easy-to-get honor? What’s more, men’s philosophy: what they can’t get is always the best.
A wise woman, who has two parts of the water and two parts of the dust, doesn’t need to bring everything to the bottom, nor does she need to make things out of control. Even if you are born with a pair of golden eyes and can’t rub a bit of sand, it will not only hurt a pair of bright eyes in the end, but sometimes it will also affect marriage. Have a try. If you pretend to be stupid properly, you will feel:
The sky is so blue, the water is so clear, and the flowers are so beautiful
Born to play dumb? Or do you pretend to be stupid because of compromise? Or do you pretend to be stupid because you’ve been wronged? To pretend to be stupid? No matter what the reason is, what is certain is that acting silly is also a woman’s unique art: the kind of flower picking smile that understands everything but doesn’t break is the most fascinating to men! According to the following statement, the really smart woman is her boyfriend who reads broken words all day:
You little fool, how stupid! In fact, your heart has been conquered by the naughty kid in front of you! Smart and transparent, smart and orchid hearted, everyone loves it, and the car has a beautiful scenery!
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