Marriage is just like a school. How much you learn and how happy you are vary from person to person. There are accidental factors, but they can not be absolutely attributed to chance. What kind of women are more likely to have a happy marriage?
relatively independent economy
It’s very dangerous to treat your husband as your long-term meal ticket. Once you are completely dependent on your husband financially, marriage is easy to change. A woman can make little money, but she must also be able to support herself. As for being a full-time wife, we must think twice before we act. Although we know that a full-time wife has to pay a lot, because she has no real financial income, no matter how great her contribution is, it will look pale. Don’t quit your job unless your husband gives you full support, or you have a good family, or you have no choice for other reasons. The life of a stay at home wife has passed for a long time, because she has no income, it is inevitable that she has insufficient confidence, which will make her husband look down on her.
can tolerate each other
When two people with different personalities live together, their living habits, temperament and hobbies will be different. If you are too picky and have to change the other party to meet your own standards, you will make the other party dissatisfied and disgusted. It is wise to seek common ground on major issues while reserving differences on minor ones.
know how to cherish yourself
It is natural for a woman to love her husband and family when she is in charge of household affairs, but she can’t forget herself. I cherish myself, but I also cherish my family.
don’t care about trifles
Every family has its own business. We should pay attention to principles and not be confused about major issues. We should not be too fussy and fussy about trivial matters. If quarrels between husband and wife often occur because of irrelevant things, the feelings will fade over time. If complaints and nagging often echo in our ears, how can we be happy?
Self confidence is a kind of charm. If you can’t recognize yourself, how can you be recognized by others? Self confidence is not only built on appearance, but also on connotation, accomplishment and morality. Elegant women have more charm than beautiful women, and gentle women are more acceptable than sharp and capable women.
have your own hobbies
If you don’t have your own time, interests, hobbies, entertainment, etc. except for your family, husband and children, it’s very easy to feel lost and depressed if you have some minor dissatisfaction from your family. So women should have their own living space.
A gentle woman knows how to overcome hardness with softness and never has a direct conflict with her husband. I will never shout when I meet with differences, nor will I make my husband feel embarrassed in front of others. After the atmosphere eased, she would slowly reason and make clear her position. A gentle woman will not compare her husband with other people’s husbands and destroy her husband’s spirit. Such a woman’s life will be more relaxed and pleasant.
A woman who has a happy marriage is not necessarily a very smart woman, but a woman who lives in a muddle headed state of mind will only be far away from her happiness.